Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Fear Of Commitment

In my counseling work, I often work with clients who have a deep fear of commitment. These individuals generally say that they want to be in a loving relationship, yet they keep picking ?the wrong people.?
Susan, 38, sought my help because she was in two relationships at the same time. This didn?t feel right to her, so she knew that she had to make a choice. Yet she could not seem to decide which relationship was right for her.
Susan had been in a relationship with Shawn for two years. Shawn, 43, was a delightful man, fun loving and sweet. However, Shawn would emotionally disappear for long periods of time, and he was clear that he did not want children ? which was very important to Susan. In addition, Shawn was always living on the edge financially.
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